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From my studio last week: June 28, 2011

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Lots of work happened in my studio last week – mostly of the cleaning sort, not the sewing sort.  I’d share a photo of the “after” but it’s still far less than impressive.  The piles are still there, they’re just more  contained.  I still risk life and limb trying to walk around that room in a long skirt.

I did get a couple of projects completed yesterday. 

First, a new dress for the little girl. 

Her closet is SO full of dresses right now that I could hardly justify making this.  But who says clothes have to always be practical?  And the fabric was far too fabulous to sit in my closet any longer.  It’s from the Fifi and Fido collection by Anna Griffin.  (It’s one on the right on the top row.) 

My OCD tendencies kicked in right about the time I started cutting out the dress.  At one point I had the grid ruler and the temporary pen to mark a perfectly straight line on the fabric where I planned to cut out the dress.  I also got a  little bit obsessive about my gingham – I had to have it cut perfectly straight across all those little squares. 

It serves me right that even with all that obsessing the dress turned out to be roughly a size too large.  I took a couple of tucks in at the side and now it fits just nice, with the added bonus that I can rip out those tucks in a year or two get a little more wear out of the dress.

I also ran up a quick pair of panties last night.  I don’t know that these need much explanation, except for that I love how they’re all kind of plain on the front and all “wow” on the back. 

Literally.

Comments

  2. That is such a cute dress, and as a fellow perfectionist/ocd, I appreciate the extra time you put in to make sure everything was perfectly straight!

Have you read?

AITA for Saying No to Christmas Orders Because I Want to Enjoy the Holidays?

Dear Crafty Readers,

“I run a small sewing business. I sell handmade items that do really well at Christmas.

Every year, as soon as November hits, the messages start rolling in.

‘Can you squeeze in one more?’
‘It’s just a small order.’
‘I really need it before Christmas.’

The thing is… I’m tired.

I spend most of the year sewing, planning, listing, packaging, and selling. By December, I’m already running on fumes.

This year, I decided to do something different. I set a clear cutoff date for Christmas orders. After that date, I said no — even when people asked nicely, even when they said they’d pay extra.

Some people understood.

Others didn’t. I got guilt-laden replies, passive-aggressive comments, and a few messages implying I was being selfish — or lazy — or ungrateful for the business.

Now I’m second-guessing myself.

Am I the asshole for saying no to Christmas orders because I want to actually enjoy the holidays?

— Anonymous

If your chest tightened a little reading that, you’re not alone.

This question cuts straight into one of the most uncomfortable truths of handmade selling: Christmas can be both your most profitable season and your most draining one.

And the pressure to keep saying yes can be enormous.

Why Christmas Turns “Can You?” Into “You Should”

At Christmas, requests don’t feel optional — they feel urgent.

People aren’t just asking for handmade items. They’re asking for:

  • Last-minute solutions

  • Emotional reassurance

  • Meaningful gifts under time pressure

And because you can sew, it quietly becomes something you should do.

That’s where boundaries start to blur.

The Myth That Christmas Orders Are “Too Good to Refuse”

There’s a strong belief in the handmade world that Christmas business should be taken at all costs.

After all:

  • It’s good money

  • It’s high demand

  • It’s only once a year

But what that belief ignores is the cost of constant urgency.

Christmas orders often mean:

  • Late nights

  • Missed family moments

  • Sewing under stress

  • Rushing instead of enjoying the craft

More orders don’t always mean a better season.

When “Just One More” Becomes Too Much

Most sellers don’t burn out from one request.

They burn out from:

  • One more order

  • One more exception

  • One more rushed deadline

  • One more person saying “It’s really important”

By the time December arrives, many makers are exhausted before Christmas even begins.

And exhaustion makes resentment grow quietly.

Why Saying No Feels So Wrong

Saying no at Christmas feels harsher than at any other time of year.

You’re not just saying no to a sale — it feels like you’re saying no to:

  • Someone’s gift

  • Someone’s tradition

  • Someone’s stress

That emotional weight can make even reasonable boundaries feel selfish.

But wanting rest isn’t selfish. It’s human.

The Unspoken Assumption: Makers Don’t Need Holidays

There’s a quiet, unfair expectation that if you work from home or run a creative business, you don’t really need time off.

That you can:

  • Sew while others relax

  • Work while others celebrate

  • Fit rest in “later”

But makers have families. Traditions. Bodies that get tired. Minds that need space.

Christmas shouldn’t belong only to buyers.

Does Enjoying the Holidays Make You Unprofessional?

Some people believe that real business owners should push through.

That saying no to demand is:

  • Bad business

  • Lazy

  • Leaving money on the table

Others believe that protecting your time is the only way to stay in business long-term.

There is no single right answer — but pretending there is creates unnecessary guilt.

What Healthy Boundaries Can Look Like

For some sellers, enjoying Christmas means:

  • Setting firm order cutoffs

  • Limiting quantities

  • Closing entirely for a period

  • Only selling ready-made items

Boundaries don’t mean you don’t care about your customers. They mean you care about sustainability — yours.

So… Are They the Asshole?

This is where opinions split — and that’s exactly why this question matters.

Some readers will say:

  • “Christmas is peak season — you take the work.”

Others will say:

  • “No job is worth burnout.”

And many will quietly admit:

  • “I wish I’d done the same.”

Over to You, Crafty Readers 

Let’s be honest — because this one hits close to home.

  • Do you set Christmas cutoffs?

  • Have you ever regretted taking too many holiday orders?

  • Do you think sellers should push through December no matter what?

  • Or should enjoying Christmas be non-negotiable?

 Scroll down and tell us where you stand.
This is one of those conversations that deserves honesty — not judgement.

(If you have a sewing dilemma you’d like to submit anonymously, Sewing.CraftGossip would love to hear from you.)