Upcycled Denim Pear Doorstop – Free Sewing Pattern

Have you noticed how quickly jeans wear out? It seems I’m always having to replace a pair of worn out jeans! Claire of Pillar Box Blue shows how you can turn those worn out jeans into a door stop that’s shaped like a pear. How’s that for turning something worn out into something useful for your home?

The thing about worn out jeans is that the majority of the jeans legs will be still in good shape, but the knees or the inner thigh area will be worn to shreds. I’ll absolutely patch my jeans to get more wear of them, but there’s only so many patch jobs you can do. Then you’ve a pair of jeans that are past the point of being worn, but with enough useful fabric that it’s hard to just toss them in the trash.

This upcycled denim doorstop is such a great idea for using that fabric. The pear shape is made from 4 pieces cut from the denim. The piecing gives a wonderful curved pear shape. The size and shape of the pattern pieces are perfect for cutting around damaged or shredded spots, too. You can find the tutorial and free sewing pattern at Pillar Box Blue.

The free pattern includes variations for two types of pears – a Conference pear which is a taller slimmer variety, and a Comice pear which is shorter and rounder.

There are plenty of other upcycled denim sewing ideas over at Pillar Box Blue. So after you make your pear doorstop, you can find other projects that would use up those scraps left over. There’s an entire section of her blog dedicated to upcycled denim sewing ideas, so I’m sure you’ll find at least a couple (probably more!) of projects you can make from the pieces left over from making the doorstop.

Go to Pillar Box Blue for the upcycled denim pear doorstop.

[photo credit: Pillar Box Blue]

Dear Crafty Readers,
“I’ve been sewing long enough that people now treat it like a personality trait instead of a skill.
Somewhere along the way, ‘you sew’ turned into ‘you should teach.’
Friends mention it casually. Family assumes it. Coworkers bring it up over lunch.
‘You could show me sometime.’
‘It wouldn’t take long.’
‘You’re so good at it — you’d be a great teacher.’
What they don’t realise is that teaching sewing drains me in a way sewing itself never does.
I don’t enjoy explaining basics. I don’t like being responsible for someone else’s frustration. And I don’t want my creative time to turn into unpaid lessons.
When I say no, people are surprised. Some are offended. A few act like I’m withholding something I owe them.
So now I’m questioning myself.
Am I the asshole for not wanting to teach sewing just because I know how?
— Anonymous

This question taps into something deeper than sewing.

It touches on expectations, emotional labour, and the strange idea that being skilled automatically makes you responsible for everyone else’s learning.

When “Sharing Your Skill” Stops Feeling Generous

There’s a lovely idea floating around the crafting world that skills should be shared freely. And sometimes, that is a beautiful thing.

But sharing only feels generous when it’s voluntary.

When teaching becomes expected, assumed, or repeatedly requested, it stops feeling like kindness and starts feeling like obligation.

And obligation has a way of draining joy — fast.

Teaching Is a Skill of Its Own

One of the biggest myths here is that being good at sewing automatically makes you good at teaching it.

It doesn’t.

Teaching requires:

Patience
Clear communication
Emotional regulation
The ability to troubleshoot someone else’s mistakes without frustration

Many talented sewists simply don’t enjoy that role — and that doesn’t make them selfish or unkind. It makes them self-aware.

The Emotional Load No One Talks About

What people often forget is that beginner sewing comes with:

Frustration
Self-doubt
Repeated mistakes
Emotional reactions when things go wrong

When you teach, you don’t just explain stitches — you absorb someone else’s emotions.

That’s a lot to carry, especially if sewing is your own way to decompress.

“But It Would Only Take a Few Minutes…”

This phrase shows up again and again — and it’s almost never true.

A “quick lesson” usually turns into:

Setting up machines
Explaining terminology
Undoing mistakes
Repeating instructions
Managing disappointment

What was meant to be a casual favour becomes a full mental commitment.

Why Saying No Feels So Uncomfortable

Many sewists say yes not because they want to — but because they feel guilty.

There’s an unspoken pressure to:

Be helpful
Be encouraging
Be the “nice” creative person

Saying no can feel like rejecting the person, not just the request. And that’s where the guilt creeps in.

Is Sewing Knowledge Something You Owe?

This is the heart of the debate.

Some people believe that skills should be shared freely, especially traditional ones like sewing.

Others believe that no one is entitled to your time, energy, or expertise — especially when there are books, classes, videos, and tutorials readily available.

Both perspectives exist — and neither is inherently wrong.

The Difference Between Teaching and Encouraging

Here’s a middle ground many sewists land on:

You can encourage someone to sew without becoming their teacher.

Recommending a YouTube channel.
Suggesting a class.
Pointing them to a beginner pattern.

Support doesn’t have to mean personal instruction.

So… Are They the Asshole?

This is where opinions diverge — sharply.

Some readers will say:

“If you know how, why not help?”

Others will say:

“Teaching is work. No one is owed that.”

And many will quietly think:

“I wish I’d learned to say no sooner.”

Over to You, Crafty Readers

Now let’s hear from you — honestly.

Have you ever felt pressured to teach sewing?
Do you enjoy teaching, or avoid it?
Should skilled sewists be expected to share?
Where do you draw the line?

Scroll down and add your voice to the conversation.
This is one of those topics where every experience adds something valuable.

(If you have a sewing dilemma of your own, you can submit it anonymously to Sewing.CraftGossip — sometimes the hardest part is just asking the question.)

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